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Welcome to My Journey: Finding Strength Through Sharing

Hey there, and welcome to My World My Life , my little corner of the internet. After what felt like an endless process, I’ve finally moved all my old blog posts from their outdated home to this fresh new space. It wasn’t easy, balancing this with treatment, work, and family life, but with a little help from my family, I made sure every post made it over intact. No missing entries, no broken links (because let’s be honest, that totally would have happened). Now that everything is in place, I couldn’t be more excited for what’s ahead. This blog isn’t just about sharing my journey; it’s about creating a space where we can connect, support one another, and navigate life’s unexpected twists together. One of those twists came in the form of breast cancer. One moment, I was going about my usual routine, and the next, I was sitting in a doctor’s office, hearing words that didn’t feel real. In an instant, my world flipped upside down. My days became a whirlwind of appointments, treatments, and ...
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Stuffed Artichoke Hearts

Every time I travel back home, my mum welcomes me with the comforting aroma of one of my favourite childhood dishes; stuffed artichoke hearts with minced meat, carrots, and peas.  The smell wafting from the kitchen instantly brings me back to those cosy family dinners. No matter how long I've been away, that first bite always feels like home, a reminder of her love and the warmth of our family kitchen. Here’s how you can make it, step by step: Ingredients: One bag of frozen artichoke bottoms 1/3 cup pine nuts A bag of Plant-Based Mince Beef (or beef) 1 medium-large carrot, finely chopped into cubes 1 cup peas 1 onion, finely chopped 1 lemon 1 tsp Salt & pepper 1 tsp 7 mixed spice Instructions: Step 1 : Prepare the artichokes: Start by placing the artichoke bottoms into a large pot.  Cover them with water and bring it to a medium-high heat.  Let them cook for about 10 minutes, just to soften them up a bit. Step 2 : Drain and simmer: Once they’re done, dr...

My Journey Through Medically Induced Menopause

When I first heard the phrase "medically induced menopause," I’ll admit, I had some pretty naïve thoughts... mainly visions of life without periods, finally free to wear white pants all month long. Turns out, I was totally unprepared for what actually happens. If natural menopause shows up like a slow train pulling into a station, medically induced menopause is more like being yanked off the tracks and dropped into a whole new hormonal landscape - instantly. One minute I was myself, and the next: hot flashes, mood swings, and a level of tired that made even my bones feel exhausted. If you’re reading this, you might be in the same boat; whether you got here thanks to surgery, chemo, or medication. However you arrived, the shock to your system is real. But you’re not alone. Here are some of the biggest challenges I’ve faced (so far!) and what’s actually helped me cope. 1. Hot Flashes & Night Sweats Let’s start with the obvious. My nights have turned into an Olympic sport of...

Baked Kofta with Vegetables

After a long day of fasting from sunrise to sunset, there’s nothing more comforting than a homemade meal that brings everyone together.  Kofta bi Seniyah; which translates to “Kofta in the pan” is one of those dishes that fills the house with warmth and mouth-watering aromas. Juicy kofta patties, roasted golden potatoes, sweet tomatoes, onions, and peppers all simmer in a rich, flavourful tomato sauce. It’s hearty, nostalgic, and best enjoyed with rice or fresh pita bread! Ingredients For the Kofta: Plant-based mince beef (or mince beef)  ½ onion, grated ¼ cup breadcrumbs (I prefer to use Sainsbury's Cranberry, Orange & Chestnut Stuffing for added flavour) 2 cloves garlic, crushed 2 tbsp chopped fresh coriander For the Vegetables & Sauce: 3 potatoes, peeled & sliced into ¼-inch rounds 3 bell peppers, sliced 2 onions, sliced 3 tomatoes, sliced 3 tbsp tomato paste 2 cloves garlic, crushed 1 tbsp pomegranate molasses 2½ cups vegetable broth 1 tsp salt ½ tsp black pepp...

Cultivating Calm: The Therapeutic Benefits of Gardening and Nature

Gardening has become such a vital part of my healing journey, and it all started during the COVID lockdown. With not being able to go out and socialize, I found myself growing vegetables and fruits in my garden and greenhouse, a way to feel connected to nature and find some peace amidst all the uncertainty. When I moved to Brighton and was diagnosed, the journey took another turn. Through the Macmillan Horizon Centre, I found the Macmillan Community allotment , and it quickly became my Wednesday morning refuge. My chemo treatments were scheduled every other Wednesday, but once I joined the volunteer team at the Community allotment, those Wednesdays were no longer about treatment, they were about the gardening. It became my therapy, my community, and my lifeline during treatment. Growing and sharing organic produce from the allotment with fellow patients became an act of kindness that brought me immense joy and purpose. It was such a beautiful way to connect with others who were on thei...

Chicken Tagine with Preserved Lemons and Olives

This dish holds a special place in my heart. I first learned how to make it from my Algerian friend’s mum, and from that moment on, I was hooked. There’s something magical about the way the warm spices, tender chicken, tangy preserved lemons, and briny olives come together... it’s the kind of meal that fills your kitchen with the most incredible aroma and makes you want to gather around the table. Of course, I couldn’t resist adding my own little twist. I like to throw in a handful of raisins for a hint of sweetness. It’s not exactly traditional, and my friend gave me a sceptical look the first time I did it, but I love how the subtle sweetness balances the bold flavours. If you’ve never made a tagine before, don’t worry. you don’t actually need a special tagine pot to enjoy this dish. A good heavy-bottomed pan or Dutch oven works just as well. At its core, a tagine is really just a slow-cooked stew, layered with rich spices and sometimes a touch of dried fruit or nuts.  So, whethe...

Navigating Work and Life While Managing Breast Cancer

When cancer enters your life, it feels like a sudden storm, disrupting every aspect of your existence with its demands and emotional toll. Yet, despite the overwhelming nature of such a diagnosis, it doesn't have to completely define your existence. Maintaining some semblance of normal life, be it through work, relationships, or hobbies, can be a source of strength and continuity. However, everyone's experience with cancer is uniquely theirs. While some might find their daily routines and priorities wholly transformed, others, like myself, strive to weave treatment into an existing tapestry of responsibilities. The role of a support system, mental health resources, and personal perspective cannot be understated in navigating these challenges. My own journey took a dramatic turn right before my surgery for breast cancer, requiring me to step back from a demanding job as Head of Delivery at the Greater London Authority. It wasn't just about taking time off; my role demanded a...

Shish Barak – A Comforting Twist on a Classic

Shish Barak has always been one of my favourite Middle Eastern comfort meals. Traditionally, it’s made with homemade dumplings stuffed with spiced meat, then simmered in a garlicky yogurt sauce; warm, creamy, and full of nostalgic flavours. But let’s be real, making dumplings from scratch takes time, and sometimes you just want that delicious taste without all the effort. That’s why my version is a little different; I swap the homemade dough for pasta and use plant-based mince instead of meat. It’s a simplified take on the classic, but still packed with all the comforting flavours I grew up loving. If you’re looking for a cosy, flavourful meal that comes together more easily, this twist on Shish Barak might just become your new favourite too! Ingredients: For the  Yogurt 1 tub of Greek Yogurt 1 tbs Corn-starch Salt  3 Garlic cloves 1 red onion Water For the pasta stuffing Conchiglie rigate pasta Plant-Based Mince Beef (or mince beef) 1 tbsp Olive oil 1 tsp ground coriander 1 t...